Girls With The Mostest

benz girl · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 8:58 am Post subject:

I think she looks great.

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alynneh · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 9:00 am Post subject:

I don't think she's fat either.

Brashley · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 9:02 am Post subject:

I don't think she's fat by any means - but that pic is one of the more 'flattering' angles of her in that outfit. I do think the media is blowing her weight out of proportion because it's just another thing to pick on her about. [smilie=smileymrt.gif]
For cripes sake - that girl has enough problems at the moment. . . . . like trying to assemble the shattered pieces of what was once called her career.
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sexy · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 9:54 am Post subject:

i think her body looked great the other night. I have seen some images of her recently where she looked a little thick but not at the VMA's. by thick i don't mean out of shape, just a larger than she was before she was married. People don't have the same body from when they were 16. I used to be a size zero, no more. I actually like having some curves.

Heather1968 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 10:19 am Post subject:

Gail27 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 11:09 am Post subject:

I think she is bigger than she used to be but she looks great to me {besides the really bad hair weave.}. Hell, she just had two freakin kids. I said something to my lil sis about how it pisses me off because people are saying she is fat. I think I am close to her size but sis says I am smaller.
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Heather1968 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 11:17 am Post subject:

Gail27 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 12:01 pm Post subject:

That could be true. I have had antidepressents make me feel out of it.
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goodfriendeva · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:06 pm Post subject:

IaGirl · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:57 pm Post subject:

I think people are saying she's so fat only because they're used to how thin and toned she used to be. She's actually probaby at a very healthy weight now, but her thighs are really thick compared to what they were and it's very noticable from how she was.

I really admire Tyra Banks for addressing this kind of stuff. I loved the attitude she took when the media got on her case about weight gain.

I went on a tangent about a year ago abuot my weight as I noticed my metabolism really slowing. I talked really honestly with a couple of male co-workers about women and weight and their opinions? Overwhelmingly, they told me they love curves on a girl. We went out drinking many times and they'd comment on the girls (like drunk horny guys do) that were healthy looking... never once did they pay attention to the toothpick girls.

Sorry for the rant! I hate teh media for glamorizing toothpicks!!!!!!

dahlia · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 4:38 pm Post subject:

Iagirl--- That's so true-- there are guys who do prefer thin girls, but it really seems like the vast majority, when it comes down to it, love curvy women.-- and that doesn't mean 38-22-38 (HUGE boobs and hips, TINY waist), just curvy all around.

When my husband and I met, I was 25 lb bigger than I am now, I wore size 9/11 jeans. and a 34C/D bra. He LOVED my body, wishes I'd go back to that... I was always self-conscious, but now that I'm at a size that I always thought I wanted to be, and that my friends tell me they're jealous of, I really wish I could put on 5-10 lb, and get some squish back. Skinny just doesn't feel sexy to me.
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IaGirl · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:09 pm Post subject:

Oh, Dahlia, I so hope I didn't hurt your feelings with that! You look absolutely gorgeous! You are what I think I want to be, but isn't realistic for ME. I'm just bigger boned and hipped and you seem to be quite small boned - it's your natural build and it's beautiful!

What my issue is more so is women like myself, who are naturally a bit bigger, who go to such great lengths to try to look like you - which they can't accomplish in a really healthy way, since it just isn't how they were made.

I've been struggling with eating issues for a while now - trying to figure out how *I* want to look instead of letting fashion, media, an idiot bf, etc dictate it for me... and it's been confusing. I think a lot of us girls struggle hard with it - do I honestly like how I look or am I trying t look like society thinks I should?

Ok so that was a little too much, sorry...! but just want to make sure you know I think you're gorgeous! I wish I needed to gain weight! How much fun I'd have! Bring on the Cakesters!!!!!

dahlia · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:22 pm Post subject:

Oh, don't worry, you didn't hurt my feelings, I was just agreeing with you! (and you really don't look much bigger than me at all in your siggy picture!)

Isn't it horrible how the grass is always greener? Girls who are a little bigger want to be thinner, and girls who are smaller want curves.

I think I am starting to adjust a little better to being small-chested, though (don't worry, I'm still getting my BA when I can!!) I think it's going to be easier to wait though, because I'm realizing, big thanks to DH, that even if I don't have big boobs right now, I'm still sexy, just in a different way-- and when I do get my boobs, I'll be sexy then too!
(I think he's scared I'll get TOO comfortable with my small boobs, LOL-- he likes me the way I am, but he's gotten all hyped up about me getting a BA, he'd be so let down if I didn't...)

Anyways... LOL, we're both just going off on our own tangents.
I have to say, your siggy pic is really gorgeous, I don't know how you could have any weight to lose.
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Carissa21674 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:25 pm Post subject:

I wouldnt call her fat but she has let herself go, in my opinion. I think if she dropped some pounds and got herself back into shape she would look so much better. Oh, and let her hair grow back out too.

I do like her new song :)
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Larissa · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:29 pm Post subject:

If Angelina can look HOT after 4 kids Britney can do it after only 2. Oh wait....only 1 of those came out of her va-gina. Screw Angelina psycho

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dahlia · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:32 pm Post subject:

Heather1968 · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:45 pm Post subject:

alynneh · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 6:04 pm Post subject:

I don't think she looked fat BUT I think she looked out of shape.

I do think, men, in general, prefer women with a little meat on their bones. I just can't seem to "gain it" in the right places without looking bad. For example, when I'm heavier, it all goes to my face and arms. Does anybody else have this problem???

tlc · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 6:10 pm Post subject:

I think she looks great. I never did understand why she feels the need to wear under garments on stage. She needs to class it up ...
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Snippy · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 6:50 pm Post subject:

Not fat. She's actually the goal I have in mind for myself.

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